I had an intriguing client engagement today, and one of the questions that came up after the workshop really made me think…
Someone asked me, “what if I am trying to be a different person, is that okay.” At first it took me off guard, I thought – why would we want to be different than who we are naturally. Why would we want to be in a position or a career that forces us to be different and makes us uncomfortable.
After a few moments in the discussion, I realized that this person was trying to be a better manager and increase her ability to have stronger people skills. OK, I get that and I’m sure her staff will greatly appreciate her efforts in that area. However, her natural tendencies will continue be to be a task driven person and focus on getting results rather than consulting many people.
My question remains, what if we want to be a different person than what we have naturally been gifted. I’m sure there are many reasons out there to stretch ourselves, learn and grow, but is doing a job that makes us have a high degree of worry and stress worth it?
My answer is – Yes, for a short time period this could be a good opportunity to learn a new skill, stretch our comfort zone and get out of our normal routine. However, over the long haul it could ware us out and become a huge stressor. Proceed with caution if you are continually placed in positions that aren’t natural for you (example: if you are continually doing routine work and your gifts are to be adventurous and visionary).
Happy Friday and have a great weekend!
Jessica Pierce
jessica@atdsuccess.com
www.atdsuccess.com
